Do Not Disturb
Vinyl session in progress
Here’s a hill I will die on: vinyl is a solitary activity.
We love everybody, but record-collecting, or even just music-listening, is best served solo.
And therapeutically so.
From crate-digging without hearing all about your friend’s weekend, to spinning one of your favourite records free from interference, there’s a quiet pleasure in keeping the experience to yourself.
Vinyl lovers come in all shapes and sizes, but there’s one thing we share: we tend to feel comfortable in our own company.
And sometimes, we just don’t want to talk.
Simple as.
Not because we’re miserable, antisocial, or plotting anyone’s downfall, but because our favourite ritual asks for a bit of space: a record, a turntable, and some uninterrupted time.
In a world that seems to be pushing us into a permanent state of inter-connectedness, it almost feels revolutionary to admit that we sometimes just want to be left to ourselves.
When everything’s meant to be shared with the community, it probably sounds like sacrilege to tout the wonders of flying solo (on Substack, of all places), but you know how much I enjoy ruffling feathers every now and then.
So I hit record.
Impromptu, unscripted, one-take-or-die, true Vinyl Room style. Colourful language and candid remarks included. Pinch of salt, stir well, and enjoy 😎
Where do you stand? I’d love to hear how your views and experience compare with mine.
Happy spinning!
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Being allergic to small talk, this certainly resonated on a deep level with me. But there is value to blocking out dedicated time on your own. Especially for records.
Amen. Last night, a friend offered to drop by on his way home to visit. I said if you come by, I'm listening to music and will not talk over the music. He didn't show. I used to have small listening parties and people would be upset when I complained about everyone talking while the music is on. It's a LISTENING party. I get it. Most people love to be social, but there's a time and place. It's disrespectful to sideline the music. Like talking in a library. Like taking a call at a Classical concert.